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Pre-Married & Engaged

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FOR YOUR MARRIAGE
In November, 2004 the U.S. Bishops voted overwhelmingly to make marriage a priority. They launched the National Pastoral Initiative for Marriage (NPIM), a multi-year effort to communicate the meaning and value of married life for the Church and for society. The Initiative brings together Catholic teaching and pastoral practice, social science research, and the experience of married couples. It will offer guidance and resources to promote and strengthen marriage. www.ForYourMarriage.org is an outgrowth of this initiative providing "resources for living happily ever after." Check out the site if your are married or just thinking about it!
Link to article Why not take her for a test drive?
Why not take her for a test drive? by Jennifer Roback Morse
Thinking of moving in with your significant other, just to see if marriage is a good idea? Turns out living together isn't all it's cracked up to be. The Census reports a 72% increase in the number of cohabiting couples since 1990. Unfortunately, research shows that cohabitation is correlated with greater likelihood of unhappiness, and domestic violence in the relationship. To read the entire article, click on the button to the left.
Intimacy Training Link
Intimacy Training: Advice Columns - RELATIONSHIP ARTICLES By Doug & Naomi Moseley
Over the past half dozen years we’ve been writing regular relationship columns for Marriage Magazine , Synchronicity Magazine and a Netzine called Commitment.com. Here’s a sampling of articles.
Relationship Learning Center Link
Relationship Learning Center - We believe that the essence of relationship is the space that exists between two people -- that invisible bridge -- that place where we meet. Learning how to best honor, nurture, and keep that space free of distress is essential in love, business and play. We invite you to browse the articles and resources on our site, and when you are ready for lessons, a seminar, coaching or counseling, just let us know.
Once a Catholic Link
What's so bad about living together before marriage? - Living together before marriage is certainly becoming more popular: the U.S. Census shows a 164 percent increase in unmarried partners since 1980. But as cohabitation becomes more popular, its negative effects – especially on women – are becoming more apparent.

Pre-Marrieds / Engaged Couples
Engaged Encounter Link
Catholic Engaged Encounter - Catholic Engaged Encounter (CEE) provides quality marriage preparation primarily for couples who are planning to marry in the Catholic Church. However, couples who are not Catholic are also welcome to attend one of our weekends. The program is available in most dioceses in the United States and in many locations internationally.
P R E M Online Link
PREM Online - Preparing for Relational Effectiveness in Marraige
This is an online course or, more accurately, a marriage preparation experience designed for and available to all engaged couples or couples who are thinking about getting married, who would like to be better prepared for the demands of marriage and family life. It approaches marriage from the Christian perspective and necessitates that both partners read the material and interact with each other as they engage in the relational activities that the course offers.
Covenant Marriage - FOCCUS Link
Covenant Marriage Movement - The Covenant Marriage Movement, in partnership with FOCCUS, Inc., would like to introduce you to FOCCUS. The Most comprehensive, timely user-friendly Marriage Preparation Inventory available!
FOCCUS Web Site Link
FOCCUS - Welcome to FOCCUS, Inc. One-stop source for information, service and resources in support of marriage and relationship development and enhancement. The place for educators, religious and lay leaders, counselors and social service providers looking for sound resources for marriage preparation and couple enrichment. An introduction to programs and services that are current and research based, couple centered, adaptable, user-friendly and affordable.